I wont judge you
Its easy to feel guilt about our parenting
lets get this sorted out
so you can be proud of you
Choosing to care and evolve your parenting skills
There is NO such thing as perfect parenting
Conscious Parenting is about being conscious of who we are being in our relationships. Its easy to be unconscious and do what ever flows out of our mouth or what our emotions seem to be telling us what to do.
Babies and children take most our time and energy and being a parent is a deep dive into what is probably the most unselfish period of our lives. Its a learn on the job, and most of us are unprepared but want to be the best we can for out kids.
Most of us are busy parents, with ideas of how our life should look based on a tv program or our neighbors, maybe our childhood. We are likely to have subconscious ideas of how our life should be which may clash with our picket fence perfect house idea. The reality is most parents feel guilt about who they are with their children.
We look at the reasonable and unreasonable guilt. We can come to an alignment as to how we choose to judge ourselves, we can feel good inside and not be perfect , we can shift a few things to make sure we are supporting our children in a way that will be good for their self esteem and independence. Being conscious is not being perfect its choosing to learn and evolve who we are and our relationships. Choosing to be on the Journey to be a better parents, have better skills in relationship with our selves and our family’s.
There is lots of different advice available.
Two years before my first daughter was born an acquaintance stayed with us for two days. I was amazed her two children were so happy and they were a loving family.
for some reason I believed that children cry alot
I had an odd belief that children always cry alot. When I asked her she spoke about attachment parenting.
I started to research attachment parenting which led to other methods. I dreamt of parenting different from my parents and I used some of the advice in books shown in the Conscious Learning/ Books page to create a loving and enjoyable life with the children I hoped to have.. I am grateful that I saw another way of living.
I am a fan of each parent coming into relationship with themselves and their children as unique people, together and separately acknowledging we all have unique traits.
Caring for children is so potent and transforming we are triggered at the slightest things sometimes. We often parent like our parents or major caregivers did . There are so many ways of loving available to us. Many many ways of being and doing that our nearest and dearest have never considered.
Are you interested in complementary ideas or maybe entirely different possibilities of how to be a parent?
Kids and Teens Coaching
Kids and Teens can benefit from coaching. When they dont feel heard or seen they can disengage.
I am not a therapist. I am a coach.
Children benefit from someone who is not a parent to help them understand themselves.
I would discuss with the parent separately as to what is a realistic outcome and how I work.
One possibility is a mediation session between you and your child, where you both get to voice your story. We can come to an agreement as to what outcome is wanted from the coaching.
This is coaching its not conditioning your child to be perfect.
We would work with enabling his or her self esteem and their responsibility for them selves. To respect and create good relationships in their life.
Having the self esteem and knowledge to create their own life, is a what I want for my children, what do you want?
Would coaching help your son or daughter?
Education and Certifications
The Regenerative Practitioner Series – Certificate
Regenesis Institute for Regenerative Practice
Issued Dec 2021 · No Expiration Date
Resolution Institute Mediation Accreditation
Resolution Institute
Issued Aug 2021 – No Expiration Date
Zenergy Master Class
Zenergy Global: Facilitating Collective Intelligence
Issued May 2021 – No Expiration Date
Zenergy Global
APMG InternationalAPMG International
Issued Jan 2018 · No Expiration
Credential ID 2000750757
Date
EMA
Issued Jul 2003 · No Expiration Date
Education
Art and Craft Diploma – Year Two Level, Ceramics and Painting
2015 – 2016
Grade: A- Hungry creek
Hungry Creek 1 year – Ceramics major. completed to 2 year diploma level. I really loved this course, I left to do more coaching and to transition into being a working mum.
Bachelor of Design 1996-1999 – 1 paper to complete, 3d
1996-1999
Grade: B-
4 Year Design Degree – to level 700. 1996,1997,1998,1999
Design and make 3d objects
Why I didn’t I complete? Student loans were for 4 years, so I got a job to pay my bills. I intended to go back , however I got caught up earning and paying off my loan.