Written 2017
Do you get totally pissed off when something doesn’t happen how you thought it would? Or should ? Well that’s a good sign you area prewriting your future rather than living it.
The thing about action is that it frees you to move onto something else regardless of the result. That mind loop story of how hard it is going to be is now defunct, because you have moved past it into a different moment.
So you have been in action doing something, its now time for the debrief,
- how did the action go,
- what can I learn from it ?
- what to discard
- what to change
- what to keep for the next action?
Results of our actions are just a result, good or bad its not a reflection on your inner self. Getting things right first time is pretty unusual. That’s ok, its just an experiment.
When you take shame blame and judgment out of achieving the results, then actions can be come fun experiments to discover the way that works for you.
